In Love with Love

The Difference Between Being In Love And Being In Love With Love

When you are in love with love, you are in the relationship for its benefits, and you cower away from more difficult aspects. By cower, I mean, you don’t address them or you don’t go about dealing with things in a healthy, respectful way.

Frankly, you don’t care as much about the person as you do what they can do for you. Your fantasies about being with them revolve around how they make you feel, what they do, what they say, and how wonderful it is for you.

When you’re really in love with someone, you want them: the good, the bad, the ugly. You come back at the end of the day. You are as accepting and nonjudgmental as you possibly can be. You don’t want to change them. 

When you are in love with love, you leave as soon as things start to get tough. You are waiting for the day someone becomes what you want them to be because you aren’t happy with who they are right now.

 In the case of falling in love, what comes down often crawls back up. If you can fall in love with a person then you know you can just as easily fall out of love with him or her.

There are astrological combination that shows that the person is in love with love.

These combinations are:

Sambhandha or link of 1st and 7th lords and houses

Ve/Mo sambandha or link with 1st and 7th lords and houses

Bridge of jupiter

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2 of 3 of the above will get it done but the more confluence and strength the better

Other boosters:

7th lord in 7th, aspecting it or Parivartana

1/7th factors strong in MO or VE constellation

Absence of the influence of laggards

strong condition of the factors

Good placement of the factor